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How to Tell if a Guy Likes you – Five Signs He’s Interested

Author: Tonja Weimer

How can you tell if a guy likes you or is interested? You noticed him when you were standing and talking with a friend. You think he noticed you, but maybe it was your imagination or just wishful thinking. He looked at you at about the same time you saw him. Your eyes met for just a few seconds, and then you looked away. When you looked back up, he was talking with some other people. Was he watching you as you mingled? Or were you making that up? How can you tell if a guy likes you? Why are guys so hard to read?

Here are five signs that he is interested in you too. If any of the following happens, he is probably trying to get close enough to ask you out:

1. He tells someone

Is he interested? He likes you if he tells a mutual friend that he wants to know more about you, or he asks other people who you are and where you’re from. He is trying to act like he’s “just asking” but his questions indicate more than a casual interest. And when he tells someone that he finds you attractive, he probably knows that it will get back to you. He’s hoping it does.

2. The look

He gives you a look that betrays his calm exterior. Even though he is across the room, “that look” he has says it all. It is sweeping, from your head to your toes, and then his eyes linger on yours. You think you notice the beginning of a tentative smile.

3. The conversation

Does he like you? When he manages to get close enough to you, to ask you questions, he is interested. He appears to be listening and responds to what you say. He’s moving in to the ultimate question, which is: “Are you seeing anyone.” He would only ask this question if he wanted to date you, and he hopes the answer is “No.” Never ever wear a ring in public. When a guy is across the room, he cannot tell which finger it is on and he may assume incorrectly that you are taken. If he doesn’t ask you the question of whether or not you are attached, he may ask someone whom you both know.

4. He appears unexpectedly

He likes you a lot if he shows up out of nowhere. He can only do that if he has been asking people about your schedule, or he has been paying attention to where you are going and at what time. His face may turn red when he sees you. A sudden, “Oh, hi,” is his way of saying, “I don’t want to seem obvious, but I am interested in you.” If you feel the same way, do not act shy. Stop and talk to him.

5. EVERYONE likes you

Is he interested? When you are well liked and a happy person, why wouldn’t he like you? Of course he does. If you don’t have a great life, however, now is your time to start working on one. Take a look at your career possibilities, body image, future, plans, and resources. You may be naturally talented at something, but it won’t matter unless you work on your strengths. Misused or unused talents fade away. School and training do not.

These are the five signs that he is interested and he is on the verge of asking you out. Make it easy for him and be friendly. This is where relationships begin.

Do you want to know more secrets about how to attract men? Do you know how to dress, what to say, what to do, and the body language to use when you go out? Do you know the 5 steps to take to meet any guy anywhere? Read on to discover all the secrets to having all the dates you want in How To Attract Men: Secrets Every Woman Should Know

About the Author:

Visit http://www.singlesdatingtips.com for more tips, skills, and insight on dating, relationships, singles, and love. Subscribe to our F*ree Savvy Dating Newsletter from master single’s coach, life coach, and syndicated columnist, Tonja Weimer. Copyright 2006, Tonja Weimer. (Please note source if reprinting this article.)

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Yet again we found a video on YouTube that we hope will be helpfull to you, in one way or another.

This video will give you some great pointers on how to initiate a conversation with a women you never met before -- both showing you the rights and the wrongs.

Hope you find this video helpfull!

In this first video she’s gonna talk about how to make a girl fall in love with you, and this would be a very good supplement to our first series of articles.

So we hope you will enjoy this first video - and remember no matter who you are, there is no reason you can’t enter the world of elite dating.

The first book we would like to recommend to you is The Game by Niel Strauss this is one of the best book in the dating genre, if not the best dating book.

This book takes you on a great journey with a man who evolves from a very shy man to one smooth-talking dating artist. Throughout the book he dates famous people, receives life coaching from Tom Cruise, moves into a big fancy mansion with another celebrity. But just when he thinks life can’t get any better, he falls for a woman who beats him at his own game.

This book is very well written, and a lot of fun to read but don’t be mistaken – you will learn a lot of good techniques reading this book!

To learn more about this dating book, and to get a good offer you should follow this link -> more about our first dating book review.

So how did it go, did you meet some interesting new people? Did you get comfortable with the technique we taught you in Dating – The approach [PART ONE]? Or do you still feel uncomfortable?

Well you don’t have to worry; there are still plenty of techniques we can teach you and we can almost guarantee you, that in time it will feel just as comfortable approaching new people as washing your hands.

Ok so what can you do if you still feel uncomfortable, and we’ll like to point out that this technique can be used in all aspects of your personal life. The exercise is to put words on your feelings and familiarize you with them. Let’s say you get that annoying felling in your stomach when you are about to approach the girl of your dreams, just stop for a minute – maybe go to the bar and get a beer, and start thinking about what that feeling is about and put a word on it. What you’re felling is most likely fear of rejection and that’s perfectly normal, the important thing is that now you have a clear name for it.

Now you’re probably thinking how does this help me? We know you might think this sounds stupid at first, so did we, but here goes – When you can identify certain feelings it’s actually possible to project them away from you by using this simple exercise – next time you get that feeling you just look at your hand and say to yourself, hey I know this feeling it’s the fear of rejection, close your hand and act like you’re throwing that feeling away.

This exercise can be very helpful in all aspects of life, just think about all the bad feelings in life that can drive a man crazy – Jealousy, anxiety, anger the list goes on.

That’s it for now, until next time we encourage you to go out and talk to some new people and use this technique.

We all know ( or at least a lot of us do )  that unpleasant gut feeling when we see a pretty girl and we really want to talk to her but have a hard time building up the nerve to go talk to her, and when we finally do, it feels like we just swallowed our tongue, wouldn’t it be nice if we could eradicate that feeling and just go talk to her, like we’ve  known her for years?

Ok, let’s have a look on why we feel like we do, and how we can become a master at approaching new people. I might as well start by telling you that mastering this technique don’t come overnight, it takes time and you must be willing to face your own fears.

The first thing to do is start paying close attention to how you behave when you are around people you either love of have a close relationship with, for example how to you behave when you’re hanging out with your friends, and just as important how do you feel inside. This behavior and feeling is what you need to imitate, when you’re trying to make a connection with a person you just meet. What happens when you do this is you remove that psychologically barrier there is between you, and you slowly start bonding, this is also referred to as brain syncing, a subject we will talk much more about later on.

Another important thing to remember when you’re trying to make a connection with a new person is that it’s normal to feel nervous, most people do. One of the main reasons you feel nervous is the fear of rejection, that people don’t like your personality and might think less of you. The best way to overcome this is fairly simple, you must always keep in mind that it doesn’t matter what other people think about you, the single most important thing is that you feel good about yourself. The great thing about this mindset is that if you feel good about yourself you will send out a positive energy, and this energy will help you when it comes to bonding.

What we want you to do until next time, is to go out and talk to complete strangers, try out this technique and get comfortable with it.

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Let’s start by saying that it won’t be enough to just read the blog, to make this work for you, you have to get out there and make the contact “women loves men who takes charge” we at golddateblog are very aware of the fact, that most guys have a hard time approaching women, because they fear rejection but don’t worry, we will teach you exactly how to do this, and how to overcome the “fear” rejection.

This knowledge on how to date women can be used in all aspects of your social life, so even if you’re already in a set relationship, you can use the theories on this blog to improve on your social skills.

Well enough about the chitchat and let’s get going.